Bring water and milk to a boil, add grits and salt and cook until thick and creamy, about 5-10 minutes
2 cups milk, 2 cups water, 1 cup grits, 1/2 tsp salt
Stir in the cheese, bacon, and chives until evenly distributed, allow to cool to room temperature, then cover and chill until very firm, about 4 hours
2 cups shredded cheddar cheese, 4 slices bacon, 2 tbsp chives
Preheat oil in a large skillet for deep frying to 350F
Shape into small patties, then dip in flour, followed by egg mixture, followed by panko
1/2 cup flour, 2 eggs eggs, 2 cups panko bread crumbs
Deep fry for 2-3 minutes each side, working in batches to not crowd the pan
oil
Remove from oil using a slotted spoon and drain on paper towels or on a wire rack
Serve warm